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I think 4/21/2004
I think that when ending a relationship it is best to make
a clean break. Tell the other person that you don't
want to see them anymore. Instead of avoiding them I makes
it alot easier for all parties
0 Comments, 9 Views,
7 Votes
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RE: Admitting you've cheated ..... 4/20/2004
You are absolutely right when you say, your admission of
infidelity may do more harm than good. By coming clean about
cheating, you may absolve yourself of guilt, by coming
forward with the truth and asking (begging) forgiveness.
However, your problem then becomes your partner's
problem (nightmare) and everything you felt plus more
gets dumped on your partner - the one you have already ...
0 Comments, 34 Views,
25 Votes
,6.89 Score
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Re: The ONE is gone 4/18/2004
Believe me, I know what you are saying and can seriously
feel and indentify with what you are probably going through
(right now). I've been working through something
extremely similar for nearly a year. I know that may not
sound like something you want to hear, but if you are like
me, you really have to look at the issues that caused him
to leave and why you never thought he would? It's ...
0 Comments, 9 Views,
12 Votes
,5.45 Score
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Admitting you've cheated! 4/17/2004
If one cheats on a significant other but realizes it was
a mistake, should he/she admit to it. Will this do more harm
than good?
0 Comments, 8 Views,
20 Votes
,5.93 Score
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If there is a right way? 4/17/2004
Is there a right way to break up?
Should there be a mutual break up?
Should the couple just ignore each other?
What do you think?
Suggestions?
0 Comments, 54 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score
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I've had it 4/16/2004
I can't stand this woman. I try to get away from her and
we end up having incredible sex. In the bedroom is great.
Everywhere else just sucks. What can I do?
0 Comments, 17 Views,
9 Votes
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Stay miserable & married or divorce her 4/14/2004
My wife and I have been going through the motions for years.
We have two teenage and we constantly fight over decisions
involving them. I like them to be responsible, respectful,
and listen to what we ask them to do. My wife on the other hand
thinks they should have free rein to do whatever they choose.
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Also, my wife thinks she would be acting like a
if she every wore ...
0 Comments, 14 Views,
10 Votes
,3.98 Score
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Breakin' up is hard to do... 4/12/2004
Once again, a relationship fails for me. This time, the
fault isn't me, her, so-called friends. It's
my . Who is 6.
He can't even remember me & his mother being together.
He behaves well when he sees her & her new guy. But he
lives with me, & he seems to be jealous of the time I've
been spending with my recent partner & her . We've
been together for 21/2 years, & been living together
for ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
4 Votes
,4.80 Score
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When breaking it off with a female. 4/12/2004
*try to talk it through first.
*Be honest.
*Dont list our faults-it doesn't help.
*Tell us, calmly and rationally what went wrong.
*Try to be calm; yelling and name calling aren't a way
of breaking up, they are a way of causing MORE pain.
*Dont string us along uneccessarily for weeks, that makes
it worse.
*don't say sorry. It pisses us off more.
*break it clean
*dont promise ...
0 Comments, 19 Views,
11 Votes
,5.60 Score
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Recent devistating divorce 4/12/2004
Hello everyone, I am a new member here (standard) I would
just like experienced members to explain to me how it is
worth it to join the site. The reason I ask is I do not know
anyone who has ever joined any online dating site.
<br>
Recently I moved here (ND) to start fresh, and things are
going outstanding, But I would like to begin dating, or
more, but I have little time to go ...
0 Comments, 2 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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Getting divorced 4/7/2004
My husband came home last Wednesday and told me that he wanted
a divorce. We have 2 . He is being a real dick and
wants everything but the 's. I am packing up my 's
and moving out. Even though I married a real jerk I don't
think all men are the same. As soon as my divorce is final
I am going to go out and have some fun.
0 Comments, 8 Views,
15 Votes
,4.82 Score
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not good at it 4/7/2004
I hate telling a girl it's over. It's like I don't
want to burn that bridge. I might want to come back later
and get some pussy or something. Or maybe I'm just a
nice guys that doesn't want to hurt a woman's feelings.
Anyone else have this problem?
0 Comments, 14 Views,
14 Votes
,6.02 Score
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Re: it took 10 days 4/6/2004
Hello,
Sorry to hear about your problem.
If both your names are on the lease then you are both responsible
for paying the rent. If she doesn't pay her half you
can get a court order to move her out. If it's only your
name on the lease then it's even easier to get rid of
her. Either way, don't evict the premises (not sure
about PA laws) but in some states evicting the premises
could ...
0 Comments, 25 Views,
5 Votes
,5.75 Score
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Re: How Do You Let Go 4/2/2004
There are no words to say to anyone to help them let go. "Time
heals ......" is not what you want to hear, but unfortunately,
it's true. I've been there and done that soooo
many times! Sometimes it takes longer than usual, especially
if you were in love, but he/she wasn't. It is the most
painful thing to go through. "One sided love"
relationships is never easy, and I know that I'm not ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
6 Votes
,5.64 Score
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it took 10 days 4/2/2004
i had been dating this girl for around 6 months, we had talked
about getting a place of our own, so we decided to start out
in an appartment, i was madly in love with her after 37 yrs
i thought i had found the perfect girl, enjoyed everything
i did. people thought we where perfect for each other, her
mom and dad told me i was the best thing that has happen to
her in her life. so we started ...
0 Comments, 8 Views,
14 Votes
,6.66 Score
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Who's To Blame 3/31/2004
I was dating a woman who was supposedly in a bad marriage
and in the midst of a divorce. After a few months of intimate
dating we decided to get an apartment together. About two
weeks after we moved in together and two days before her
divorce was to be finalized, she told me she wanted it to
end, that she wanted to give her husband another chance.
The shock, the pain and the anguish was ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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soon to be ex-wife already engaged before our court date 3/30/2004
My wife kicked me out of my house 8 months ago and started
dating a "friend" that is 6 years younger than
her age of 32. Ok, at first I was pissed because she was stringing
me along and lying to me in order to get money out of me. But
once I told her I had to take care of me she filed for divorce.
I can definately handle getting divorced! She was a golddiging
who has learned this ...
0 Comments, 38 Views,
33 Votes
,7.74 Score
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friend can't seem to get away from gf 3/29/2004
What is it with nice guys, not being able to get rid of the
women that screw around on them and don't respect them?
I have a friend who is the nicest guy in the world....treated
his gf like gold....she cheated on him often, hid it from
him forever, and he has now found out. I'm scared he's
going to get back with her though, i'm wondering if
anyone has some advice i could give him....to help ...
1 Comments, 26 Views,
19 Votes
,6.03 Score
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How do you let go? 3/29/2004
How do you let go of someone? How do you cure a broken heart?
Everyone says time - but I'm finding that time just
hurts... they have moved on and you're still left there
lapping at your wounds.
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Take it one day at a time.
Time heals everything.
I'm tired of hearing this.
I want strong arms around me at night. I want to feel closeness
again.
2 Comments, 128 Views,
39 Votes
,5.92 Score
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Take everything 3/28/2004
Why is it that when a man and a woman break up from a relationship
one always feels it necessary to take everything that they
have aquired as as couple?
0 Comments, 41 Views,
13 Votes
,6.16 Score
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No sex after marriage 3/22/2004
After I married my wife, she became less interested (virtually
no interest) in sex. I accepted that there were some reasons
for this over the first 6 months, as we had a young baby, but
things did not get any better, even after breastfeeding
stopped.
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I am getting to the desperate stage, where I am so sick of
wanking and I find it hard (impossible) to even talk to a
woman ...
0 Comments, 33 Views,
36 Votes
,7.38 Score
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marriage jitters 3/21/2004
Was dating a guy for 2 years. When we started dating he said
he never wanted to marry again, which suited me fine. After
2 years he decided we were getting married, set it all up
and told me the night before the wedding. I had told him I
never wanted to marry and he had said he respected this,
when confronted with this he said it was how he wanted it,
and I agreed and married him or it was ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
11 Votes
,6.72 Score
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Hard to let go. 3/20/2004
You broke up over a week ago, you know it was for the best but
you still can't stop thinking about him. You can't
stop thinking about all the great times and the bad ones.
You miss the looks and touches. After two years of nightly
contact, you now find yourself set adrift with nothing
to do. You always knew that you loved him more than he loved
you. You promised yourself you wouldn't call ...
0 Comments, 75 Views,
25 Votes
,7.45 Score
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I don't know how 3/19/2004
I am in a sticky situation...I have been seeing this lady
that has contact with my wife and I am afraid if I break up
with her she will rat me out to my wife. What do I do?
0 Comments, 4 Views,
12 Votes
,5.98 Score
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Plz Respond need break-up info help 3/18/2004
I meet this girl in highschool i was in 10th grade and she
was in 9th grade..we ended up liking eachother and got together....facts
about her (shes anti-social and depressed sometimes)
we ended up having a and i stuck around and was with her...after
we had the baby i was'nt being the best boyfriend and
we ended up breaking up after about 1year and i took this
pretty hard....she was 16 ...
0 Comments, 10 Views,
10 Votes
,4.78 Score
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Should I stay or should I go? 3/15/2004
Well ive been with this girl now for 11 years and the past
year we dont seem to get along as well but we prefere to be
and do everything together, I love her dearly and she says
im to controlling but im not sure that i am. So lately when
I go to work she goes out to her friends which i cant stand
another female but she knows i do not like the girl but she
goes anyway, We hangout on my days ...
0 Comments, 41 Views,
1 Votes
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Completely Oblivious To His Cheating 3/14/2004
We had dated for 2+ years he is in the Army. He just came home
for a week leave and he cheated on me and got caught and he
telld me that this has been going on since this summer. He's
cheating with his Sister-in-law's sister in law.
Needless to say I broke up with him and sent in on the plane
back to Georgia this morning begging for mercy.
3 Comments, 261 Views,
59 Votes
,5.37 Score
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I Do not Know Why it ended 3/13/2004
I went out with this girl for six months, everything seemed
fine sex was great she did not want a commitment just a bit
of fun, I had been splitup from my wife for 12months and I
was real happy just having a casual relationship. She would
stay at my place sometimes, she was living with her parents
after her marriage ended, she moved into a house of her own
and boy did things change, ...
0 Comments, 9 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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What to do after Sex? 3/11/2004
We just had our first time with another couple, man and woman,
and we had great sex! Even though it was not a full swap, everyone
enjoyed themselves fully. The other couple was very experienced,
but the man was a smoker and we do not smoke, so that was a turn
off. We had so much in common with the other couple, they
could be our best friends, but I really don't want to
have sex with them ...
0 Comments, 18 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Re:Friends Wife doesn't seem want to do it anymore. 3/10/2004
I think you should just let go of that desire to be with her
and focus on your marriage. because although the sex may
be good. it's not worth destroying a marriage, if her
husband or your wife find out. and say that happens and both
your marriages get ruin, and you and her are together. the
Trust wouldn't be there because the both of you cheated
on your spouses and both of you would think ...
0 Comments, 14 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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